jamhi wrote:


Thank you... its funny how some people preach love and being kind yet they are the first ones to lash out, call names when wits has an opinion that differs from theirs...

Sue most of all... never practices what she preaches.. she states its best to ignore him yet she can't help responding...

Oh, and here's part of PM from Sue from Dec. 26, 2011 that she sent to me...

I know you're both good people, and I just want you to be happy, and for the three of us not to fight any more. I really don't!!
Take care, and hang in there!! Sue
26 Dec 2011, 11:52 AM SunshineSue Delete message

Doesn't seem like she ever really means what she says...HIPPO-CRIT... Hey Sue, put him on ignore and don't respond to anything he says.. try for once in your life to STFU

gr8fuljen wrote:


pot, meet kettle

this is the first shoreline show that i have missed since i moved ot cali.
i have decided, that i shall not miss the whole tour. i will be in santa barbra(me aunts name is barbra)
i gotta admit, the RR setlists didnt do much for me, but the last night at edgefield looks crazy good. and shoreline also. and seatle.
so i guese what im saying is.
i wish i was rich and could just go to all the shows. but im not. so i will go to santa barbra. i could go
to deigo too, but shit, i might.
ill have to chekc the dates.
fuck i hate being broke ass.
im too old to a lotrat, and too lazy to vend(if i go to shows, its to have a good time not work, i worked my way on tour all through my 20s, takes all the fun outa shows if you have leave early to set up, and your working for ticket/gas money. it didin when i was younger, hell it was fun, but now im old. and its a bother)
any other aging deadheads feel my pain.
seems theres a point in your life, where you stop showing up early and stayinn late at shows.
nowadays i want to gget there early enough to walk shakedown and check for shit i might want, smoke 2 joints, then go in.
after the show, i tend to want to smoke 2 joints, drink 2 beers(usually right outside the vehical) then bail.
just wait youngsters, it will ahppen to yall too.

Sugaree1 wrote:


You are obviously confuzeled...you rag on WITS for his opinion.. then say the above...apparently you think you're right and he's wrong... sounds kind of Narcissistic..you're opinion is of more importance than his.. that is why you must call him ass clown and loser for his opinion...If its such a simple concept, why can YOU not grasp it?

Oh, and without 1985 blah blah blah and Hershey blah blah blah.. there would be no Furthur.

Kevin, I am a kind person but that doesn't mean I will let people bully me and my husband simply because his opinion is what it is.
I don't preach anything...I do what I do and don't give a rats ass what anyone thinks about it..
And, after knowing what happened to a certain person here at Red Rocks... I've come to the conclusion that I would only
care to hang out with only a handful of people from this board...alot of the ones here made plans for at least 4 months for RedRocks and saying meet up and lets all be kind heady FFF freaks.. yet when one seriously kind person goes out of his way for many of you... and sets up exactly where the planned meet up spot was, you couldn't walk your fat asses down the hill to appreciate all that he did you you guys...jerks...
and this is not directed at you Kevin. We have burried our hatchet and I appreciate that you remembered our anniversary...

Wow tough reading here. Not what I come here for at all.

Stonedbeetle wrote:


Neither do I...I don't come here that often because of it...and I don't appreciate seeing my husband
verbally attacked because his opinion differed from others. Ive ignored most of the crap but when you
take a swing at my family then I will swing back..sucks it has to be that way but apparently everyone but my husband
is allowed to have their own opinion without being attacked.

illuminaughty wrote:


Nope, sorry, man, I hope I die before I get old and it happens to me. Although the years age our physical beings, our spirits are eternal. Show day for me is what Christmas is to a young child - a day filled with presents, surprises, and fun. I can barely sleep the night before as I am so anxious to wake up so I can get to the show as early as possible. It's a pleasure to enjoy the early-morning company of others who feel similarly.I haven't drank any alcohol since 1985, but I will indulge in other activities throughout the day. After a night of dancing, I usually seek out a spot to sit before leaving the venue. Strolls through Shakedown happen periodically through the day, and I may get a burrito after the show if I find the right vender.

Stonedbeetle wrote:


I get home to all this?? Stoned beetle you can thank Sunshine Sue & Sugaree1...they are the instigators of this whole blowup... all because I stated my opinion that now many have come to agree with regarding the show last night. Sugaree1 comes out flailing...i respond..someone posts be kind love your sisters and brothers...and then out of left field Sue quotes it and then proceeds to slander me--- I find the irony of that hilarious. As far as Sugaree1..I am not going to get in a battle of wits with someone whose argument degenerates into name calling and personugl attacks (debate 101 when you resort to name calling and personal attacks you have lost). I'm going to try to take the high road.. (although I must admit I would love to quote some of the pms I got re Sunshine Sue). Back to the music please.

Please be kind to your brothers and sisters.
This thread is about the Setlist from the Furthur Show at Shoreline.
Let's try to stick with the topic and cease the mud-slinging. Thank you
for your consideration. Please move any disputes to a separate thread.

jamhi wrote:


Thanks for the kind words! I can assure you that words typed on the internet have no impact on me... I am a grown man. I have a beautiful/hot/kynd wife & two beautiful high achieviing successful children...what more can a man ask for? I have spent over 3 decades loving this music, dancing, touring........... and will continue to do so. If you can't take my opinions don't read them. I'm sorry but in the circles I run/ran in we are pretty cynical and harsh critics of the music. If you can't take someone saying one of your heroes had a bad night.. you may have larger problems to deal with. Now back to the music. Thank you for reading.

Still Takin it Weirder wrote:


Thank you for stopping this energy-draining drama. There's good stuff waiting to be shared. Happiness everyone!