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Shakeit
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Need some emotional support...

#98744 2 years, 10 months ago
WHEW...just broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. This is gonna be tough to swallow.
Sorry to be off topic, but the folks around here are usually pretty supportive.
Any advice, encouragement, thoughts, etc...?
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deadegad
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Re: Need some emotional support...

#98752 2 years, 10 months ago
Sending The Holy Spirit right now.
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wlewis
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Re: Need some emotional support...

#98753 2 years, 10 months ago
stick through it, next few weeks/months might be rough.

did you end it? had it been time for a while?

listen to the music, let it take on new shapes and meanings
who else is gonna bring you, a broken arrow?
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Dire Wolf
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when the police knocked y'all...

Re: Need some emotional support...

#98754 2 years, 10 months ago
Don't rush into another relationship. Find yourself again get centered have fun and you'll eventually meet another fabulous lady. The.rebounds girlfriends only keep the ones worth keeping out of your life.
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ecojaded
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"Why don't you arrest me"

Re: Need some emotional support...

#98756 2 years, 10 months ago
Been There Bro-

1) Find things to do that don't involve her/or where you will see her

2) Never talk to her again, it only make things more difficult

3) go get a freash hair cut and a new pair of shoes

4) LISTEN TO THE MUSIC PLAY

You will be fine, time heals all wounds.
She tries to live by the golden rule.
Said you treat other people right,
Other people probably treat you cool.
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FurthurFlower67
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Good Love!

Re: Need some emotional support...

#98757 2 years, 10 months ago
4 years is surely a long time to be with someone. Sorry it ended! But if you had ended it you must have had your reasons. Think of all the good things you've learned from the relationship. Take those with you. Don't dwell on the negative and keep good thoughts!

Sending some love to ya!
Dreams are lies...it's the dreaming that's real!!!!
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FurthurFlower67
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Good Love!

Re: Need some emotional support...

#98760 2 years, 10 months ago
Dire Wolf wrote:
Don't rush into another relationship. Find yourself again get centered have fun and you'll eventually meet another fabulous lady. The.rebounds girlfriends only keep the ones worth keeping out of your life.


Exactly! Never rush into another relationship. Enjoy the single life for a while. See what your opitions are out there!
Dreams are lies...it's the dreaming that's real!!!!
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23atwell
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I love what I love and I want it that way

Re: Need some emotional support...

#98772 2 years, 10 months ago
ecojaded wrote:
Been There Bro-

1) Find things to do that don't involve her/or where you will see her

2) Never talk to her again, it only make things more difficult

3) go get a freash hair cut and a new pair of shoes

4) LISTEN TO THE MUSIC PLAY
You will be fine, time heals all wounds.


That's great advice. Haircut and shoes always makes me feel better.
Perfect
And I'm going to sit right here until I die
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Shakeit
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Re: Need some emotional support...

#98789 2 years, 10 months ago
Thanks everybody, it really helps. The breakup had been coming on for a little while, kind of felt it coming, Ill spare you the details.
But im feeling ok about it right now, And I like the new shoes and haircut idea.
volare
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Re: Need some emotional support...

#98801 2 years, 10 months ago
Looks like you got great advice already. Keep busy, but let yourself mourn the loss as well. Sending good vibes your way!!
The Sailor, coming out again, the lady fairly leapt at him.
That's how it stands today. You decide if he was wise.
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