I just finished up the book, Growing Up Dead, which, if you haven't read it, is a part-memoir, part-social history recollection of a now 42 year old, former touring Deadhead, from upstate NY.
I enjoyed it but can't see myself re-reading it, so I am happy to pass the book along. If you are interested, respond here or hit me up via PM.
The Sailor, coming out again, the lady fairly leapt at him.
That's how it stands today. You decide if he was wise.