It can be grosely unfathonable--can it not. It can hit hard when we realize it is the ultimatein hiding people dew behind this grey glass. But they would have to get a dictionary for definitions of things like integrity, character etc. There is a guy on another place who is dnagerous and trash. Yet on the site, he is a star. I was bullied to the point of trauma--real trauma, even back in 2000 on the alleged 1st real place: dead.net, just for being different.
people I will never know got involved.
The top 3 are all dead now.
No compassion here except for their familes. 2 from OD's. the 3rd recently.
Happened in 09 too, elsewhere and they get a following of people we never even mail too. People who would rather belong ANYWHERE then goodness.
I have not seen what you speak of to you, but I know, so here's a hug to squeeze you so so so tight. I read rarely here. Not that much substance TO read. Myself and others did write the site though and ask for a thread to be removed that was so disgusting, it misrepresented anything the music or real heart is. Guess who started it?
Just as bad is the type addicts who would never even offer to shake your hand!
Here is a ((hug
so hard it squeezies you))
Best advice--rarely visit. Any of them. Info, scedules and real contacts are the only reason. Mindless babble we can get anywhere.